I was out with some women friends the other night, and one of them complimented another on her fabulous shoes. The shoe lady said, “Thanks, I bought them as revenge when Scott took that golf trip to Arizona last month.” I was like, WHAT??? I don’t get that. Are we the chicks from Desperate Housewives? Who thinks like that? Who buys an expensive item to take vengeance on a spouse? That makes no sense to me. Isn’t his money your money? If you end up without the funds to pay the mortgage because you spent $600 on shoes, are you not both out on the street? And besides, did Scott really care? Did that $600 really make a dent in his Porche-driving pocket?