Tulip Question
Posted: May 7, 2008 Filed under: garden | Tags: flowers, gardening, tulips 2 Comments
My tulips are losing their petals. I am not sure what to do now. Do I cut the tops off or leave them on? I know I need to leave the stem and leaves until they turn brown, but I’ve gotten conflicting advice about the stigma. Should I leave it or not?
MacGyver: The Movie
Posted: May 6, 2008 Filed under: movies | Tags: 3:10 to Yuma, Iron Man, MacGyver, Marvel, Mission Impossible 4 Leave a commentI heard they’re going to make it with a shoe string, two matches and a bottlecap.
http://www.slashfilm.com/2008/05/04/and-then-hollywood-pointed-and-said-why-not-macgyver-the-movie/
Seriously though, who’s going to pay to see that?
Last night Manfrengensen and I finally watched 3:10 to Yuma. I didn’t get it, though I am not a huge fan of the western genre. Manfrengensen said he liked it until the final scene, when he thought it fell apart. Anyway, about a third of the way into it, I asked aloud, “Who directed this?” and at the end of the film, the credits told us: James Mangold (of Copland and Identity fame.) Manfrengensen quipped, “Yeah, as in ‘Mangold‘ the third act.” He’s punny that way.
I promised him I would attribute that line to him, not that I had originally planned to write about it here, but his vehement defense of intellectual property made me bring it up. He likes to think that I steal all his best lines because one time he overheard me telling my boss one of his jokes. I think it was the one about the movie The Devil’s Own. Do you remember that one with Brad Pitt and Harrison Ford? Manfrengensen had said at the time that Brad Pitt’s accent was “about as Irish as Mayor McCheese.”
More about Iron Man: I am sure you have heard by now that Marvel plans to bring out the sequel on April 30, 2010. And there’s a whole slough of other superhero movies coming from Marvel as well including Thor, Captain America and The Avengers. Tony Stark’s got a cameo in the upcoming Incredible Hulk movie and there’s talk of Bruce Banner showing up in the Iron Man sequel. Fanboys everywhere must be so excited!
Ugh-I just read that Tom Cruise is in talks with Paramount to make Mission Impossible 4. Is that necessary? Seriously. Please. Don’t. I don’t have a problem with Tom Cruise, but I do have a problem with movies that stink. Didn’t Mission Impossible 3 suck enough? I can’t say that it was the worst movie ever, but it’s definitely in the running.
Make it Offical!
Posted: May 4, 2008 Filed under: Politics | Tags: English language, immigration, protesters, spelling Leave a commentThis person was apparently protesting amnesty legislation for illegal immigrants in Texas. She might do well to learn the language herself.
Where Are the Family Movies?
Posted: May 4, 2008 Filed under: family, movies | Tags: Iron Man, Lance Link, Space Chimps, Wall-E Leave a commentManfrengensen and I went to see Iron Man last night. I’m not going to do a full review for you here because you can read one almost anywhere else, but I do want to say that it totally lives up to the hype.

For once, we didn’t stay until the end of the credits, and I have to say that I am sorry we missed what’s on the other end of them. If you go, be sure to hang out.
And with that, the 10th anniversary was the best one ever. We went out for a lovely meal, and Manfrengensen came up big with the gift, offering something sparkly. Very sparkly. Not that I am hard to please in the gift department, or that there was even anything I wanted in particular. In fact, I’m not big on sparkly at all. But something about this gift…I’m a little over the moon.
I gave him a wallet and a Wii game. He’s probably not walking on the same slice of angel cake as I am today. I’m not even sure the former is genuine leather. Maybe I should have gotten him one like my brother has. It looks like slices of raw bacon. It’s just fun to imagine Manfrengensen pulling his gold card out of that greasy-looking thing in front of one of his business clients.
So, I’m looking at the summer movie releases here, and I don’t see much in the way of family viewing. Sure, there are superhero movies, The Incredible Hulk, The Dark Knight,
Hellboy II etc., but I wouldn’t take anyone under 10 or 12 to see those. For young boys, pretty much the only option this summer is going to be Wall-E. There are also Space Chimps and Kung Fu Panda, but we’ll only venture to those if their reviews indicate that they don’t completely suck. What are the chances?
Also next weekend, there’s Speed Racer, which is kind of obligatory for us because T3 is a car FREAK. But again I don’t have high hopes. Plus, the running time is two hours fifteen minutes. That is not good. No family film should be longer than ninety minutes, and that goes especially for movies about pirates, whether they are made for families or not.
So, that leaves us maybe one movie release a month for the kiddies. There are a few others coming out, like Narnia, which mine are too young for, and Kit Kittredge: An American Girl Mystery, which I’m guessing is geared more toward female viewers.
It’s not a family film, but I do feel the need to mention that Manfrengensen and I saw a preview for The Love Guru. Are we the only two people who think Mike Myers is not the least bit funny?
Early in the formation of this blog, I said to my husband, “What do you want your alias to be in the blogosphere?” And he gave it to me. I had no idea what a pain in the ass it was going to be to have to type “Manfrengensen” on a regular and repeated basis.
Here’s some good monkey for you:
p.s. – Family life continues to be a cave of wonders: Today J was sick, and he actually napped for two and a half hours! (He corrected me – two hours, twenty-three minutes.)
It’s Our Anniversary
Posted: May 2, 2008 Filed under: family | Tags: anniversary, flintstones, Iron Man, love 1 CommentManfrengensen and I are celebrating ten years of wedded enchantment.
Going out to a swanky restaurant tonight, and then to see Iron Man. Hooray!!
Labyrinth
Posted: May 1, 2008 Filed under: Health, Politics | Tags: Health Care, Health Savings Account, MRI Leave a commentManfrengensen likes to run the numbers for our little organization. He takes pride (as he should) in keeping us fiscally sound.
A couple of years ago, he told me that he thought one of President Bush’s ideas made a lot of sense. So, I did the natural thing and sniffed his lapel for traces of opiates.
Manfrengensen figured out that it would be more economically sound for us to invest in a health savings account (HSA) like the ones President Bush was touting. In theory, HSA’s sound like a great idea. Consumers drive the medical economy by negotiating prices for their own health care. Sounds good, doesn’t it?
The way an HSA works, is that you buy insurance, at a lower cost, with a certain deductible amount that you pay out of pocket. Though you can pick whatever deductible you want in order to dial down your monthly premium, let’s pick a round number, — say, five or ten thousand dollars for the whole family. Then you put that money into a savings account that you dip into whenever you go to the doctor or hospital. You pay less in premiums every month, plus you earn interest on the money in your account.
Again, in theory, a good idea. In practice though, I imagine that most Americans couldn’t (or wouldn’t) be able to put the money aside for their health management. Most people can’t afford to put that kind of money in an account, and lots of those who do have the money, would probably rather spend it on more tangible goods like expensive cars, homes or shoes.
In addition, I don’t believe that the “consumer driven” economy of health will ever come to fruition. The idea is that if people have an economic stake in their own health maintenance, they will be not only be more discriminating about the ailments they seek care for, but they will be able to shop around and thus find the best prices for their care.
So far, I am finding the latter not to be the case at all.
In the last few years, I have suffered from migraines, and after several months of chronic attacks, I finally went to see a neurologist last summer. He’s great, said it seemed like the classic migraine scenario, but suggested that I get an MRI just to be sure. So, okay, I want to get an MRI. How much do they cost? You’d think it would be relatively easy to find out. But it’s not.
First I called the place doing the MRI. They couldn’t tell me. It would depend, the nice, patient lady said, on what my insurance company was willing to pay based on what kind of policy I had with them. She suggested I call the insurance company, as they would be the only ones capable of telling me that number. I said, “Can you give me a ballpark?” And she said, “Well, it could be anywhere from eight hundred to five thousand dollars.” That’s a big ballpark.
So, I called the insurance company, armed with the diagnosis codes the nice, patient lady gave me. The insurance company said they couldn’t give me that information, that the MRI place needed to call them. They said the price of the MRI depended on what price the doctor or the office had negotiated with the insurance company. So I called the MRI place back. The woman there was very nice and obliging. She called me back two minutes later and said that the insurance company told her that they “don’t give out that information.”

In other words, I was chasing my tail. I think it’s like flying to Florida. You never know what the price really is until the day you book your trip. Today the insurance company’s paying $800, but if you submit the bill tomorrow, they spin the wheel and the compensation could be something else entirely.
So, finally, I went to get the MRI, in total blindness, and I waited for the bill. It came in around two grand. Well spent, but again, not the consumer driven health care system we’re supposed to be talking about.
Manfrengensen needs to have his own thing done at some point, so he told me he was going to try to find out what it’s going to cost. I didn’t say anything, because he had to follow his own path, but yesterday he reported that he had gotten the same runaround that I had. Needless to say, I wasn’t at all surprised.
I’m not saying that HSA’s aren’t a good idea. Actually, I think ours is serving us well. But I do think that if you want demand to determine the price of health services, somebody needs to tell the suppliers that the rules of the game have changed.
What Up, Prozac Nation?
Posted: April 30, 2008 Filed under: Politics | Tags: Clinton, McCain, New York Times, renewable energy Leave a commentAfter I got the kids situated this morning, I sat down at the computer to read the New York Times. Man, that’s a bummer. I wasn’t in a good mood to begin with. The seeds of a headache germinated steadfastly in my frontal lobe.
The thing that caught my eye was an editorial piece by Thomas L. Friedman called “Dumb as We Wanna Be.” I have to agree with Friedman’s point about Hillary Clinton and John McCain wanting to suspend the federal excise tax on gasoline. It is short-sighted. If
anything, we should be making gasoline more expensive, encouraging people to drive less and find alternatives to their cars. We should be investing in mass transit and renewable energy, but instead, politicians are hindering the changes this country needs to make.
My favorite point in the Friedman article:
“Few Americans know it, but for almost a year now, Congress has been bickering over whether and how to renew the investment tax credit to stimulate investment in solar energy and the production tax credit to encourage investment in wind energy. The bickering has been so poisonous that when Congress passed the 2007 energy bill last December, it failed to extend any stimulus for wind and solar energy production. Oil and gas kept all their credits, but those for wind and solar have been left to expire this December. I am not making this up. At a time when we should be throwing everything into clean power innovation, we are squabbling over pennies.”
Read more here:
Right here, in my own state, the legislature recently put the kibosh on a plan to build a wind farm off the coast because it would be “too costly” to consumers. What they believe the price of oil and natural gas is going to be in the next few years, I have no idea, but I do think the myopia of politicians in this country is epidemic.
I think it’s very hard for most Americans to live ascetic lives when it comes to energy, but there are things that we could try to do like insulate our houses better, turn thermostats down in winter, up in summer, carpool, ride the bus when we can, etc . But I also think the government, both local and federal, should be doing more to help us, i.e. providing tax incentives for solar panels and hybrid cars, investing more in mass transit, and the like.
In practice though, there are few options. I’m about to start shopping for a new car. With three kids, all of whom still need booster/car seats, my options are limited if I want to go hybrid. What I don’t get is that Toyota actually makes a hybrid minivan, but they don’t sell it in the US. Why is that?
Price is always a factor too. If hybrids remain so much more expensive than fuel-only cars, how are the majority of drivers going to make the switch?
In other news, there’s an article about cases of child labor discovered this week in China:
http://www.nytimes.com/2008/05/01/world/asia/01china.html?_r=1&hp&oref=login
Oh, and there was this little tidbit:
“Even factories that supply global companies, including Wal-Mart Stores, have been accused in recent years of using child labor, and violating local labor laws.”
Price, as I said, is always a factor. Everybody’s looking for the lowest prices. No one wants to pay more, regardless of what those extra pennies or dollars get them. I know people around here love their Wal-Mart. Sure their prices are super cheap, but no one cares why they’re so.
I guess I’m just having one of those days where I’m tending to look on the dark side.
But whatever…let’s just go back to talking about a crazy preacher who’s got nothing to do with anything real…
(Hang on until the end — it’s the funniest part.)
http://www.thedailyshow.com/video/index.jhtml?videoId=167140&title=penis-theft-panic-update
Vanity? Fair?
Posted: April 28, 2008 Filed under: Media, TV | Tags: Detroit, high school dropouts, Miley Cyrus, unemployment Leave a commentManfrengensen read me two staggering statistics this weekend from the Wall Street Journal. In Detroit, the unemployment rate is 15%. Fifteen percent! And
that says nothing of the number of people who are underemployed. In addition to that, the high school graduation rate in Detroit is 25%. That means that 75 of every 100 children are getting left behind by the system.
I was kind of drunk on Saturday night, which is rare for me. All day Sunday, I had trouble focusing, a little headache, a lot of haze. My glasses seemed not to be working quite right. I finally sat down in the evening to watch a little TV and I realized: I hadn’t taken out my contacts when I went to bed after the party. Duh.
Speaking of high school dropouts, I don’t want to make it a habit to comment on this kind of stuff, but…
Poor Miley. Poor thing. Seriously, she’s fifteen, and she’s getting exploited from every angle. I certainly hope it all works out for this kid, but I wouldn’t be surprised if she goes all Britney in a few years.
http://www.people.com/people/article/0,,20195785,00.html
Though I must admit that the cynical side of me thinks it’s all just crap. It’s all just PR and the sales machine. They all knew what they were doing at this photo shoot. It’s an orchestration. Oh, my god, there’s controversy in the fan base, so let’s issue a retraction (she thought the photos would be artsy, she’s just a pawn for those dirty-thinking artist-types) to placate them. The masses who want scintillation are appeased, but so are those who want their white bread nice and plain. She’s ashamed and saddened, but she can’t stop Vanity Fair from running the photos. Sure. Right.
Is there even really controversy over the photos? Or is it merely a manufactured controversy?
Any distraction will do to keep our minds off the situations in Detroit and other hard-to-face places, I guess.
This weekend, I was telling J to put his used batteries into a bag that I drop off at the recycling place. Manfrengensen likes to tease me about being an avid recycler. Not that he disagrees, but he is 2/3 Eddie Haskell, so he teases me, because like many things, I take it very seriously. This weekend he referred to me as “Alice Gore.” Thank God I have this man to keep me laughing.
Note to Restaurateurs:
Posted: April 28, 2008 Filed under: Food | Tags: bread, focaccia, Food Leave a commentFocaccia is over. Move on.
What a Great Day
Posted: April 27, 2008 Filed under: family, friends | Tags: Costume Party, fitzgerald, hair care, Sideshow Bob 1 CommentA perfect Saturday, if you don’t count having to get up early. The Princess and I had a really nice morning, running errands, out to lunch and then to the park. She was happy and fun. She was in this really affectionate mood and liberal with the hugs and kisses. It was great.
In the afternoon, she took a nap, and I grabbed a shower. Saturday night was the costume party, and as I said, I went as Zelda Fitzgerald. My hair is kind of long and curly these days, so I decided to make it shorter, more like a 1920’s bob, by putting really tight curls in it, and then taming it with a headband that went with my costume. While The Princess was sleeping, I put forty tight curl rollers into my hair. Let me tell you, I’m kind of “challenged” when it comes to doing hair. I don’t like to blow it dry or use a curling iron. It’s too much work; it always seems to take forever; and my arms or wrists always get tired in the process. My hat is off (literally) to anyone who can style their own hair or who does other people’s hair for a living. It’s something that is an elusive mystery in my book.
But, you know, I like to dream that I can do these projects myself. I let the curls set for like four hours and went about my business. Manfrengensen took delight in teasing me about my makeshift turban (made out of a white dishtowel), and if you insert your own joke there, you will surely hit on one of the images he conjured. In the afternoon, I took The Princess out into the yard, and we blew bubbles, hundreds of them, into the wind. The boys came outside soon after, and we all had little wands and bubbles were everywhere, in the yard, over the fence, making their runs in vain for the stratosphere. After a while, the boys and I played Red Light Green Light and What Time Is It Mr. Fox? with The Princess thinking she was playing too, though she was just running all over the place like crazy. In any case, it was a lot of laughs. At one point, T3 had a moment of mourning for one of the tulips that had lost its bloom. He
had taken so much delight in helping me plant the bulbs last fall. It was a sad moment, and tears were shed, but I explained, hey, that’s what flowers do. Yes, it is sad when their petals fall off, but they’ll be back again next year. I made dinner eventually (pizza, though not my best effort,) and after that I went upstairs to take out the curlers. When all was said and done, yes, you could say that I had fashioned myself a bob, only it was more like a Sideshow Bob.
A few bobby pins later, we were off. Manfrengensen looked dashing as F. Scott. The party was a lot of fun. Best costume went to this guy, John from up the street, who came as Lady Godiva. What can I tell you? Sex always sells. And he had it going on.



